Post by LiqMiiPersuasion on Jan 6, 2013 5:11:23 GMT -5
So its this guy. He is like 32, 33 years old. ANNOYING. He told me that
he wants to talk to this girl on his college campus. He seen that her
birthday is 2 days after his and would like to take her out for drinks,
they don’t know each other that well and they don’t really talk much. Im
just like, you a passerby to this girl, he also said that when he
approaches her she always smiling and stuff. Im like, nigga its called
being Polite. ANYWAYS he sent me a picture of her, I wanted the facebook
page I didn’t need him to save the pic to his phone to send to me. Smh.
I was like she is cute, got big boobs, a LOOK to her. I can tell by the
way she dresses the type of girl she is and then I was thinking about
him and was like…. Its not going to work out.
So he asking me (im 21 by the way) what should he say to her. What
should he write. He really wants to take her out. Im just like….
(finds convo)
He said that when he first approached her she said her phone wasn’t on
but that was a lie. But why she do that. Oh I didn’t have a fresh cut
when I approached her. (I am already thinking in my mind that she
already done said you are not the guy for her in her head. She does not
have to give you her number the first time you see her.)
I was like why u think she lying. He said because later that night she
was taling on the phone but she could have paid her bill cause I
approached like around 10am. (I am thinking, lol….. she doesn’t want
to talk to you like….Smh)
So then he says that they don’t talk much in person or on fb but when he
does talk to her in person she always smiling or when she is on facebook
she always responds. (…. Does NOT mean that she is interested).
So basically the rest of that part of the conversation goes by me saying
that u gotta show interest in her, start up a conversation you know..
casually do it. But he is like, should I say something about going back
to school. “So just have a regular conversation with her and then just
eventually get her number.” And im like yea. Do that.
Then “Should I play the nice guy or not. Should I hide my feelings and
act as if she not that important.” The fuck this nigga been watching.
Like, if u are interested in a girl you don’t do dumb shit like that.
Because that would not last long she will find someone better. Smh. So I
told him to be himself. Then he was like okay cool.
So later he asks me if he should do it now and im like yea do it now
don’t stall.
“What should I say.” I said Idk. Have a reg conversation. Hey you ready
to be at school? I wanna get to know you a bit more? A bunch of
possibilities.
So hours later he finally sends a message. And he was like he told her
to call him and she hasn’t done it yet. Im thinking to myself oh lord.
Already. So I told him to send me what he wrote.
“Whats up. I hope your enjoying your break. We need to tall ASAP my
number is XXX-XXX-XXXX. Call me even if you have to block your number.”I
was shaking my damn head at him. I asked if I was able to give him my
input and he was like yea.
I told him that he fucked up cuz that sounded stalkerish, desperate, and
just…. Creepy. Like, creepy as fuck. Even if you have to block your
number, nigga that message would have been deleted. Like, wtf. Like, I
said start a normal conversation. Ease into it and then ask for her
number.
Then he said he sees my point. Should he apologize, DUHHHH! “What should
I say to her to make things right by that last message to her?”
You need to apologize I mean, damn not rocket science. “I need you to
guide me this may be my last chance. Call me please please.” Im like I
cant hold your hand. I wasn’t calling that nigga. Nope!
I felt like I was a teacher….. literally. Like, I was asking him
questions like he was a student in my classroom. Lmfao.
The purpose of writing her is to what???
“I want to get to know her better. I want to build what could be a cool
friendship if not more but I don’t want to be like a brother.”
So I told him that he would like to get to know her. And to APOLOGIZE.
So then he says.
“First I want to apologize for that message I sent you earlier today. I
dont want to sound creepy towards you. That message did sound creepy. Im
not that kind of man actually im really nice easy going no pushover
though. how does that sound.” I said send it. Then I added in The reason
y I wanted to talk to u is cuz I wanted to ask u out and I didn’t want
to do it over Facebook. So he was like “I told her I wanted to ask her
out but she told me she is talking to someone at the moment. What should
I say.” Im just shaking my head. Like, its not much u can say. She
talking to someone. U can just say it’s a friendly gesture but u
automatically being put in the friend zone. Offer her friendship. That’s
all.
So then we talk about his issues with women. He told me he lost his
virginity at 23 and he rarely has sex so ppl think that he is a virgin
and im just like… okay. One, I sense self-esteem issues. I feel kind
of bad cuz if I was actually in a office with him as my client, I would
have burst out laughing when I was trying to tell him to talk to the
girl. Like, I cant walk you through it. You need to come up with your
own game. Build ya confidence up, if a girl says no. MOVE ON. Like, am I
wrong for asking him if he was a virgin and how did he approach the
girls he had sex with. Like, if u can approach them that way, how hard
is it to get a girl to talk to you OVER FACEBOOK WHEN YOUR NOT LOOKING
AT HER. Smh.
your thoughts? lmmfao.
